XcUsE mE...iS iT rEaLlY u???

           Is it so necessary for everyone to change? Do people really change or is it just in my head? Can you justify it by telling simply that its just a part of growing up. Is it so easy to let go of those special moments shared with someone by telling that you have grown up; that you can’t resist change; that you can’t stand the test of time. Sometimes I feel, I spend half of my day wishing if I could go one year back in time.

            I`m not impractical. I totally understand that time and tide wait for none. We have to move on at the end of the day. But does that mean we have to sacrifice all the good times. People say you should find good things at bad times also. I`ll tell them to step into my shoes for a while and point those good things to me. I don’t say there are none. But that doesn’t mean you can find that in each and every case. Lets take the case of people for example, and their before and after comments:

BEFORE                                                                              LATER

·         Awww....thats so cute baby.                    Listen......thats so ridiculous.

·         I know you're my responsibility now.       Why you always try to change me?

·         I love you. I know you`ll say yes.             You`ve not done a favour  to me...

·         You are special.                                       What do you think of yourself?

·         You are angel.                                         You are showing your true colours.

·         I`ll always stand by you.                           Its so tuff 2 make u understand.

·         Will you marry me?                                  Now, I`m not sure....

          And when do we finally feel that someone you truly care about has changed? Its when you feel scared to talk to that person, not trusting your mouth as you feel unsure of what you might say that will make him angry or upset him or cause a fight.

tRuE sToRy....

        It takes exactly one year two months and nine days to change from the world`s best couples to world`s biggest mistake together. And exactly ten minutes to change from the purest love to the heights of awful. And takes absolutely no time to add a “mis” to your understanding.  You will never understand what went wrong, where you went wrong. You start blaming yourself for everything that goes wrong in your partner’s life. But you will never understand these crap-level-language. Basically, all males and females face the same worry in relationships. And both of them never understand and blame each other for being insensitive. The truth is its not necessary that two awesome people will make an awesome couple, but its highly unlikely.

        And boys there! Please understand that girls don’t cry because they are jobless. They don’t cry because they feel its the nuclear power they have using which they can torture you. As a matter of fact they don’t when they love you; they cry only when they really love you and really get hurt. Take that. If only those small drops of salt water could talk they would have talked to you, tried to explain (in case you listen), whispered sorry, and begged to make everything alright like before.

       And the most amazing thing is people have the audacity to sit through all this as if getting hurt by someone you love is simply called over-reacting. And we look like stupid girls with permanent tears painted on our faces. And then we realise that you just put back the heart which was torn into two pieces just to shred it into pieces and more pieces.

       And what hurts the most is you make them feel at the zeroth day of relationship that you will take extra care and you so conveniently ditch on numerous days like a routine job. And on the nth day, saying “I don’t care” to the same person will seem as easy as watching a porn!!!

      Well....thats a true story. You know what, I think my readers are impinging me a lot. Look at me.....I was the most rueful person alive on earth moments ago. And now I`m feeling awesome.

i LuV mY nAtIoN;)

I LOVE MY NATION.

         Yeah.  That’s a familiar line from many fairly acquainted people from the very intimate world around us. What’s a nation? I`ve come across a very interesting definition in the Oxford dictionary. “Nation is a community of people of mainly common descent, language, history or political institutions and sharing one territory and government. Yes, I mean, a nation thus, is just a community of people sharing one territory in short. But one question pops up in my mind which my mind which might seem like totally absurd to many people. But according to me, if the world starts thinking over it, the Earth will inexorably become a better place to live in.

        So let the journey begin from centuries ago, in the era of God-Knows-Who. Just a piece of earth divided into two parts by Mother Nature-land and sea. No India, no America or no Greenland. And no Australia, China and United Kingdom for that matter!  What I don’t understand is what bad will it do to people if people stop loving only their own country for a second (excuse me, if this idea freaks you out) and start seeing this whole world as their own.

       In Sanskrit, there is a saying,

                                        “VASUDEVA KUTUMBAM”

which stands for universal brotherhood, theat is to see the whole world as your own.

       To make my point a bit more clear, I would like to ask another question. Its about the patriotism that we celebrate without knowing what it is. I`ve come across few people who have debated with me regarding this, a lot. But I`m not here to debate. I`m here just to write my thoughts because if they have to debate, they can write their own blog, but this is my blog.

       And to continue my weird questionnaire, I give you another situation. Every citizen in India knows how many states we all have in India (28 states and seven union territories, in case you forgot). What the Central Government gives us is this “Please don’t fight among you” crap. Now, suppose I declare each state in India as a single independent nation, (not that its ever gonna happen or at least I`m in any position to let that gonna happen), but if that ever happens, then it will clearly mean that a Marathi and a Gujarati belong to different countries and thus should be patriotic only to Maharashtra and Gujarat. They are supposed to love only Maharashtra and Gujarat and not the rest of India. That`s stupid, right?

      But I personally think of it this way: If I can divide India, why can’t I think of the whole world as my own home as I was born on Earth and love the whole of earth- all the countries and feel patriotic towards the whole of the world. Where does this “I love my nation” come from then. Because even our nation is a part of that big Earth. I`m not against anyone`s feelings, or I`m here to offend anyone`s. Everyone is free to feel whatever they wish, and so am I.